I shall just write everything out here.
To: You. ( I won't mention your name, yeahs )
Firstly, I don't hate you.
I defended you because I felt that it was unfair for you, and that you already have changed for the better but yet people are still hating you. But when we make everything peace for you and our group, you like, just do things that they disliked. If you had co-operate with them well, they will definitely treat you better and you won't feel lonely anymore. Maybe you would feel that I am siding with them, but then, I just follow what I think it is right. I think that you not trying to co-operate with them actually is making them disliking you more. As in, it's just only copy-pasting into the powerpoint. What is so hard? They give you a lot of work? I know that P actually won't lie about it. If you actually helped them up more, definitely P will actually start being nicer to you, that's a sure. X will also change her opinion of you.
But did you help out a lot? No. You keep like, not doing anything at all. If you are like this, how will people start to be nice to you? How will they stop disliking you and actually start to think you're nice? I did not only hear their story, but also yours too. But even I personally think so that, what you did was actually just angering them.
Maybe I am wrong, maybe they are lying, and maybe even you're lying. BUT, I am just using things that I heard from them. Not only one, but actually to be precise, two.
And, the next group project, you complain again, and get mad. However, the things you did are just like, not much? If it's me, perhaps I might get irritated but I know, I did not much so I don't have any rights to complain. It's like, if you're not doing anything much, then keep it to yourself. Just imagine, if you had not get mad, and do what they ask you to do etc, do you think they will think that 'Ahhh actually she's quite co-operative'? They will definitely have a better impression of you.
And this time, the chemistry project. This time, I said out what I think it is.
1.If F is doing it wrong, screwing it up, then you, who knows better, can actually perhaps be the one doing the experiment right? Since you know better, and since he don't really know how to do, you can actually take his role and ask him to take your role. Like that, no problem liao right? The experiment won't be screwed.
2. You asked me why should you be the one asking Ms Prema about the taking the keys etc right? Simple. Because you tell me about this matter, so I tell you what are the measures you can take to actually solve the problem. I don't even talk to F, so what rights do I have to give him suggestions? Unless he ask me, then obviously, I will tell him what to do. And, okay, last time you said that not only is F quiet, you are also quiet too, right? But if both of you are quiet, then who will ask? You tell me about the problem, so I tell you how to solve.
3. You said that Ms Prema is biased against you. But why is that so? Let's say, if she is really biased against you, BUT if you do well for the experiment video, you show how you are actually trying to do it, that you even approach her and ask her for the camera etc.. Her opinion of you will change, and it will be better. So you see, you can change it.
4. You say that F shows you attitude, and you say you did nothing. But think about it, like... Would you get mad at someone who did nothing? And that someone is someone who doesn't talk much also. I am not saying YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG, but it's weird for someone to like show attitude to you when you did nothing. Perhaps, what you said had offended him? Or perhaps your tone is not very pleasant? I am giving you reasons why he might be showing you attitude, and NOT BECAUSE you did it.
5. You said that if you do the experiment wrong, people will blame you, right? Then if like that, how about both of you, TAKE TURNS to do the experiment? Like that, people cannot blame you what, right? Perhaps this, I don't really understand why would people blame you actually.
I am not in any way, trying to say it is all your fault, nor am I cyber-bullying you - I did not like, give you names, say you sucks, and related. I am just voicing out my own opinion, and what I really wanted to say.
And about the letter, yes, I did show people. But that is because I feels that it is not in any way something people cannot see. Yeahs, perhaps I am in the wrong to show despite you telling me to "don't show it to anyone". And that it is not my choice to decide whether I should let others see or not, it is your choice cuz you're the one who wrote it. But then, I feel that there is nothing in the letter that is something people cannot read about. And this is not a secret. Also, you should have known that if you passed a letter to me, most probably I will let my closest friends read.
This, I would actually apologize to you cuz it is my wrong. However, it is not ME who changed her opinion. She just started to dislike it, somehow. Even if she never read about it - she will still get mad.
Anyways after this, if you hate me, then there's nothing I can do about it. And I won't do anything about it, unless you this time round really change for the better. I will still treat you as a normal friend, unless you start to do something like this again. Yes, last chance. Last. Please, I don't want you to just because we started to defend you, and you start thinking no matter what, we will defend you or not.
Also, like I had said, this is my opinion. What I had said, might or might not be fact. It is just what I know. And I hope you yourself also can reply me, regarding about this. Thanks.
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